"The Congregation of Holy Cross is a group of ordinary men doing extraordinary things. United in faith, strengthened in love and called to service by charity. Apostolic zeal leads us to one mission, serving those in need. Our changing society is calling apostolic communities to refocus their ministry. Holy Cross is to answer these changes, while maintaining our fidelity to God's church. Though faith, we can overcome obstacles. By trust in providence, God will guide the work of their hands."

- Brother Jesus Alonso, CSC

“2000 years of Christianity! Our connection as children of the same loving God conspicuously stands out. God’s grace reaches out to all equally. We equally enhance salvation history. The Holy Year should be a moment for us in the District of East Africa to look at our call and mission in terms of holiness.”

-Brother Cleophas Kyomuhendo, CSC

Elements of Discernment

SHOULD YOU BECOME A HOLY CROSS BROTHER?

Discernment is a process of decision-making that assists us in distinguishing what may be of God and what may be of ourselves. The two do not necessarily have to be opposed because the choice is often between that of two goods. In discernment, however, we try to be attentive to those inner movements within ourselves that may or may not be of God.

For someone who is discerning the vocation of a Holy Cross Brother, we recommend the following:

Prayer and Personal Reflection:

a. What are my gifts, talents, strengths and weaknesses? Do these express a realistic assessment of myself? Which of my gifts are consistent with the mission of Holy Cross?

b. What decision am I currently considering and how does it influence my relationship with the Lord? my service to the Church? to Holy Cross?

c. What are my initial reasons for moving toward this decision? What motivates me?

Discussion:

a. Discuss the above answers with a spiritual director, vocation director, and close friends. Do they affirm my responses? What modifications do they suggest?

b. What other lifestyle options interest me? Realistically, can I envision myself in these options?

c. Why am I considering these options? What do I find attractive in each of them?

d. Of the options before me, which one do I believe the Lord is leading me toward? What is the relationship between that belief and what my feelings tell me I would like to do?

e. Take some time before making your decision. Be patient with yourself.

Initial Decision:

a. What do I have to do to initiate my decision? Am I comfortable with that?

b. Can I clearly articulate my reasons and desires for my decision? Do other people need to help me in formalizing my decision? If yes, who?

c. Is my decision rooted in love? Do I have a sense of inner peace and calm about it?

Confirmation:

Test your decision by living with it for a period of time.

Do you still feel comfortable? Do you still experience that same sense of peace?

Bring your decision to prayer.

The following scripture passages are suggested to help you in your prayer and reflection:

Exodus 3:10-12
Jeremiah 1:4-8
Ezechial 3:1-4
Isaiah 43:1-4
Psalm 139:1-8
Matthew 16:24-28
Mark 3:13-15
Luke 12:22-31
John 14:8-11
Romans 8:26-31


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